Stapler: Staple People. Invite-only dating led by matchmakers you choose.
Meet Staplers: matchmakers who can get you exclusively matched with high-caliber, committed people who share your values and relationship goals.
Our ideal Staplers rely on the power of human networks and algorithms to help people find love. If you’re a natural matchmaker with a great network, you’re right at home.
Become a Stapler →
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We are bridging the gap between online dating and offline experiences through trusted matchmakers.
Discover Staplers
Connect with people who are serious about a relationship, in a candid and safe space.
You decide which parts of your story to share and when, and a dedicated matchmaker makes the introduction.
On Stapler, cupid is under the hood.
Become a Stapler
Follow your matchmaking passion and launch multiple social clubs that tailor your network into love interest-specific groups!
Make your club free, or offer paid membership for exclusive access to you and your network.
On Stapler, you can never lose access to your network — it’s yours forever.

What’s Stapler?
Stapler is a networking solution that helps matchmakers connect busy people within their networks by prompting dates or meets among compatible love interests.
It’s designed to spark meaningful connections between potential partners by leveraging the familiarity and trust of acquaintances or vetted third parties (matchmakers).
Why Stapler?
Hyperpersonalization
Get highly personalized
features and matches
Privacy-driven process
You decide what
personal data you share
Expert matchmakers
Choose Staplers who
put your interests first
Immersive experience
Explore private social clubs
and exclusive events
Invite-only membership
Bask in the safety of familiar
and vetted connections
No time wasted
Meet people who are as
serious about dating as you



Get early access
Join the waitlist to find love smartly and safely. We’ll help you find your ideal matchmaker and skip the hassle of failed dates.
How it works
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Sign up & create a profile
Stapler encourages high taste. So, tell us your background, goals, and what you’re excited about, share your religion, education, and day-to-day life so we can introduce you to the best people for you. Every prompt is set to make it easy for you and your love interest to make a move or move on.
Choose a suitable Stapler
Discover matchmakers and choose the right one to work with. Join their exclusive clubs and private events, see the success stories they share, and request a date with anyone whose profile you fancy. Along the way, you’ll get real guidance on dating.
Meet your Match
Your Stapler matches you with the right person based on what you’re looking for. Then use the built-in calendar to set up virtual meetups or recurring dates, even when your schedule is packed.
